It's not fair.....

I know every parent out there hears this at least once a day. It is just one of those things we get tired of hearing. Well things do get more complicated when you have a special needs child or one with a disability. Yesterday I heard, "you never punish her just because she has a disability". Well this is not true but I guess looking back it actually has some merit to it. It is not that we don't discipline, we just try to avoid meltdowns. I have been trying my hardest lately to be evenly firm with the girls, however the last few months have really gotten to me. I did not realize how much bickering girls do. I can honestly say that my girls may get along for five or ten minutes a day. All day yesterday I was trying to get away from them and they would literally follow me inside, outside, to the neighbors, and even across the street. I now have a following, but not the type I want. I am going to make sure that I am more consistent with all three of them, after all they are going to wine, complain, and cry either way right? Kris